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220 Never Have I Ever Questions for Couples

How do you play never have I ever in a relationship?
on October 05, 2023
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Looking for the perfect game for your next date night? 

We’ve rounded up the best Never Have I Ever Questions for couples to get you and your partner talking — with some big reveals in store! 

At Paired, we’re a huge fan of couples' games, and this one always ranks high on our list! Even if you feel that you know everything about your partner, this fun game always throws up some surprises and is a great way to unlock a new side to your relationship. 

What are some juicy questions for couples? 

Want to get to know your partner more? Don’t shy away from the juicy questions

Never have I ever questions are a fun way to switch up your usual icebreakers or conversation starters with something a little extra! 

Whether you want to get deep with your partner or are looking for a way to spice things up, this fun game is the perfect way to unlock some juicy answers.

How to play Never Have I Ever in a relationship

This classic game is super easy to tweak to make it perfect for your next date night!

The rules are simple, after the statement has been made, if you have done that thing — you have to admit it! As you move through the game, you take turns for each, ideally telling a tale to explain more behind-the-scenes information for each answer. 

Forfeits can vary, with many couples opting to turn it into a drinking game by taking a sip for every relevant question. However, if you prefer some non-alcoholic alternatives, you can simply put a finger down or eat a sweet for everyone! 

While the game itself is straightforward, before you play, it’s important to set some boundaries on the kind of questions you’ll be asking — to ensure everyone is comfortable. 

What are the best never have I ever questions for couples? 

If you’re ready to get your game face on, we have the perfect never have I ever game to try out on your next date night! 

From funny never have I ever questions, to ones that trigger some deeper conversations, this is the perfect game to get you and your partner talking. 

  1. Never have I ever stalked an ex on social media. 

  2. Never have I ever lied on the first date. 

  3. Never have I ever peed my pants as an adult. 

  4. Never have I ever lied about my relationship status on social media. 

  5. Never have I ever made a fake social media account. 

  6. Never have I ever peed in the pool. 

  7. Never have I ever given someone a fake phone number. 

  8. Never have I ever lived with a romantic partner. 

  9. Never have I ever eaten something bad that a significant other cooked because I didn’t want to hurt their feelings. 

  10. Never have I ever played Dirty Truth or Dare. 

  11. Never have I ever snooped through my partner’s social media accounts without their permission. 

  12. Never have I ever been in a fistfight.

  13. Never have I ever been to a nude beach.  

  14. Never have I ever slept with someone from a dating app 

  15. Never have I ever had a crush on my best friend. 

  16. Never have I ever sent a dirty text to the wrong person. 

  17. Never have I ever used someone else’s Netflix login. 

  18. Never have I ever gotten too drunk on the first date. 

  19. Never have I ever written a love letter to someone. 

  20. Never have I ever called the person the wrong name in bed. 

  21. Never have I ever had sex on the first date.

  22. Never have I ever gone out with a friend’s ex. 

  23. Never have I ever been disliked by my partner’s parents. 

  24. Never have I ever accidentally sent a text to the wrong person. 

  25. Never have I ever left a blind date in a hurry. 

  26. Never have I ever walked in on my significant other doing something embarrassing. 

  27. Never have I ever ruined date night just so I could be reunited with my bed.

  28. Never have I ever stalked my crush’s social media. 

  29. Never have I ever written a love letter I regretted.

  30. Never have I ever farted in front of my partner and blamed it on someone else. 

  31. Never have I ever had a fight with my best friend. 

  32. Never have I ever been on a dating app or website. 

  33. Never have I ever had an office crush. 

  34. Never have I ever had a threesome. 

  35. Never have I ever gone to work drunk or hungover. 

  36. Never have I ever played strip poker. 

  37. Never have I ever found love at first sight. 

  38. Never have I ever Netflixed and chilled. 

  39. Never have I ever used Tinder. 

  40. Never have I ever given someone my phone number after just meeting them. 

  41. Never have I ever given or received a lap dance. 

  42. Never have I ever farted in front of my partner’s parents. 

  43. Never have I ever role-played in bed. 

  44. Never have I ever sent a drink to someone I found attractive.

  45. Never have I ever had a secret admirer.

  46. Never have I ever had a friend with benefits.

  47. Never have I ever had a partner with a pet I didn’t like.

  48. Never have I ever lied about my age.

  49. Never have I ever been in a toxic relationship.

  50. Never have I ever been in a relationship only for the physical aspect.

  51. Never have I ever done something wild and crazy for love.

  52. Never have I ever lied about a past relationship to a current partner.

  53. Never have I ever been on a disastrous date.

  54. Never have I ever kissed someone without feeling sparks.

  55. Never have I ever been in a relationship with someone who was too clingy.

  56. Never have I ever been in a relationship just for the status or money.

  57. Never have I ever regretted a relationship.

  58. Never have I ever been in a relationship where we had nothing in common.

  59. Never have I ever danced in the rain with a partner.

  60. Never have I ever given a pet name to a partner.

  61. Never have I ever kissed under the mistletoe.

  62. Never have I ever re-gifted a gift from a partner.

  63. Never have I ever lied about being single.

  64. Never have I ever gone on a date without brushing my teeth.

  65. Never have I ever fallen in love at first sight.

  66. Never have I ever kissed on the first date.

  67. Never have I ever been in a relationship for more than a year.

  68. Never have I ever bought lingerie for a partner.

  69. Never have I ever been serenaded or sang a serenade.

  70. Never have I ever been jealous of a partner’s ex.

  71. Never have I ever met a partner's parents within a month of dating.

  72. Never have I ever given a massage to a partner.

  73. Never have I ever received a love letter.

  74. Never have I ever been called by a pet name by a partner.

  75. Never have I ever gone on a date just to make someone else jealous.

  76. Never have I ever lied about my job to impress a date.

  77. Never have I ever flirted with someone despite being taken.

  78. Never have I ever gone out without underwear.

  79. Never have I ever bought a gift for a partner and ended up keeping it.

  80. Never have I ever kissed someone without knowing their name.

  81. Never have I ever had a crush on a teacher or boss.

  82. Never have I ever flirted my way out of a speeding ticket.

  83. Never have I ever snooped through a partner’s email or text messages.

  84. Never have I ever lied about not being in the mood.

  85. Never have I ever used a cheesy pickup line.

  86. Never have I ever had a dream about a partner cheating on me.

  87. Never have I ever been to couples therapy.

  88. Never have I ever given a partner the silent treatment.

  89. Never have I ever introduced a partner as just a friend.

  90. Never have I ever brought a partner to a work event.

  91. Never have I ever made a partner watch a movie or show that I love.

  92. Never have I ever used a dating coach.

  93. Never have I ever regretted saying ‘I love you’ to someone.

  94. Never have I ever had a crush on a friend’s sibling.

  95. Never have I ever been set up by friends.

  96. Never have I ever ghosted someone.

  97. Never have I ever been ghosted.

  98. Never have I ever been on a double date.

  99. Never have I ever had a picnic date.

  100. Never have I ever dated someone more than 10 years older or younger.

  101. Never have I ever been dumped via text.

  102. Never have I ever forgotten the name of a date.

  103. Never have I ever lied about my feelings to avoid a breakup.

  104. Never have I ever been to a wedding alone.

  105. Never have I ever been someone’s rebound.

  106. Never have I ever felt like the third wheel while dating someone.

  107. Never have I ever been in a relationship where I felt ignored.

  108. Never have I ever been dumped on a holiday or birthday.

  109. Never have I ever had a date’s pet hate me.

  110. Never have I ever been in a relationship for more than 5 years.

  111. Never have I ever been on a date and not offered to pay.

  112. Never have I ever felt love at first kiss.

  113. Never have I ever dated someone with children.

  114. Never have I ever regretted moving in with a partner.

  115. Never have I ever played matchmaker for friends.

  116. Never have I ever dated someone I met online.

  117. Never have I ever dated more than one person at a time.

  118. Never have I ever had a partner dislike my friends.

  119. Never have I ever had a breakup in public.

  120. Never have I ever been caught cheating.

  121. Never have I ever gone on a date for free food.

  122. Never have I ever had a dream about marrying a partner.

  123. Never have I ever flirted with a server or bartender.

  124. Never have I ever had a partner cook me a meal.

  125. Never have I ever had an argument in public with a partner.

  126. Never have I ever been on a holiday with a partner.

  127. Never have I ever been to therapy or counseling.

  128. Never have I ever had a one-night stand turn into a relationship.

  129. Never have I ever lied about a partner to my parents.

  130. Never have I ever pretended to be single.

  131. Never have I ever gone on a date to a place I hated.

  132. Never have I ever stayed friends with an ex.

  133. Never have I ever had a partner with a weird fetish.

  134. Never have I ever dated someone shorter/taller than me.

  135. Never have I ever been walked in on.

  136. Never have I ever lied about liking a gift from a partner.

  137. Never have I ever kept a big secret from a partner.

  138. Never have I ever been dumped for someone else.

  139. Never have I ever played hard to get.

  140. Never have I ever dated someone my friends disliked.

  141. Never have I ever had a relationship with someone I met on vacation.

  142. Never have I ever had a crush on a celebrity.

  143. Never have I ever been unfaithful.

  144. Never have I ever planned a surprise date for my partner.

  145. Never have I ever written a poem or song for a significant other.

  146. Never have I ever cooked a special meal to celebrate our relationship.

  147. Never have I ever taken a spontaneous trip with a partner.

  148. Never have I ever organized a thoughtful gift for a partner "just because."

  149. Never have I ever thrown a party to celebrate my partner’s achievements.

  150. Never have I ever stayed up all night just talking and laughing with a partner.

  151. Never have I ever lied about where I’m going to a partner.

  152. Never have I ever called someone by an ex’s name.

  153. Never have I ever been mistaken for a couple’s therapist.

  154. Never have I ever pretended not to be home when a partner came over.

  155. Never have I ever forgotten a special occasion.

  156. Never have I ever been to a party as a couple.

  157. Never have I ever given a bad gift intentionally.

  158. Never have I ever been in a relationship for the wrong reasons.

  159. Never have I ever been caught in a lie by a partner.

  160. Never have I ever had a partner throw me a surprise party.

  161. Never have I ever done a couple’s costume for Halloween.

  162. Never have I ever questioned my sexuality.

  163. Never have I ever watched a sunset or sunrise with a partner.

  164. Never have I ever accidentally said ‘I love you’ to someone.

  165. Never have I ever been in a relationship with a significant age gap.

  166. Never have I ever dated someone from a different cultural background.

  167. Never have I ever pretended to like a partner’s family.

  168. Never have I ever said ‘I love you’ without meaning it.

  169. Never have I ever had a partner say ‘I love you’ and not say it back.

  170. Never have I ever dated someone I was not attracted to.

  171. Never have I ever lied about where I was going.

  172. Never have I ever gone on a double date.

  173. Never have I ever used my partner’s toothbrush without permission. 

  174. Never have I ever stalked an ex’s new partner on social media. 

  175. Never have I ever kissed someone on the first date. 

  176. Never have I ever laughed so hard, I accidentally peed my pants. 

  177. Never have I ever tried to lose at a game of truth or dare. 

  178. Never have I ever gone skinny dipping. 

  179. Never have I ever forgotten my partner’s birthday. 

  180. Never have I ever been in an open relationship. 

  181. Never have I ever been on a blind date. 

  182. Never have I ever dated a co-worker. 

  183. Never have I ever had a one-night stand. 

  184. Never have I ever taken a sexy selfie. 

  185. Never have I ever fancied a friend’s parent.

  186. Never have I ever gone to a strip club.  

  187. Never have I ever been engaged.

  188. Never have I ever cheated on a test.

  189. Never have I ever gotten a tattoo.

  190. Never have I ever been on a road trip with a partner.

  191. Never have I ever given or received a hickey.

  192. Never have I ever been serenaded.

  193. Never have I ever been arrested.

  194. Never have I ever learned a new skill or hobby because it was important to my partner.

  195. Never have I ever helped my partner fulfill a dream or goal.

  196. Never have I ever shown up at my partner’s workplace to take them out for lunch.

  197. Never have I ever had a paranormal experience.

  198. Never have I ever gone vegan or vegetarian.

  199. Never have I ever traveled abroad.

  200. Never have I ever gone camping with my partner.

  201. Never have I ever been given a speeding ticket. 

  202. Never have I ever been afraid of meeting my partner’s parents. 

  203. Never have I ever had a crush on my best friend’s partner. 

  204. Never have I ever forgotten our anniversary.

  205. Never have I ever kissed someone of the same sex.

  206. Never have I ever lied about my number of partners.

  207. Never have I ever gone bungee jumping or skydiving.

  208. Never have I ever been in a long-distance relationship.

  209. Never have I ever been proposed to.

  210. Never have I ever been in love with two people at the same time.

  211. Never have I ever broken someone’s heart.

  212. Never have I ever been to a psychic or fortune teller.

  213. Never have I ever had a pregnancy scare.

  214. Never have I ever gone on a blind date set up by friends.

  215. Never have I ever brought up an ex unnecessarily.

  216. Never have I ever gone commando.

  217. Never have I ever regretted a breakup.

  218. Never have I ever sent a flirty text message to someone other than my partner. 

  219. Never have I ever peed in the shower. 

  220. Never have I ever sung karaoke. 

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