How to take the pressure off this Valentine’s Day
Ever had a Valentine’s Day fail? Don’t worry, all the best couples have. When expectations are so sky high, there’s a huge number of things that could go very wrong.
And when we surveyed Paired couples, it turns out they do go wrong, more often than you would think. But that’s all part of the magic. At Paired, we celebrate the real, imperfect moments that truly define your relationship. After all, it’s the little mishaps that often become the most memorable chapters of your journey together.
So, in the spirit of taking the pressure off this Valentines, here are some real stories of where Valentine’s Day hasn’t exactly gone to plan:
Got some of your own stories to share? DM us on Instagram @pairedapp. We’d love to hear them.
Aligning Expectations
At Paired, we’re all about turning the spotlight on honest communication rather than idealized romance. Our ‘What’s in Your Heart? Your Valentine’s Vision’ Question Pack has been carefully crafted by our Head of Relationships, Aly Bullock, a marriage and family therapist, to help you bypass the guesswork and openly share your expectations for Valentine’s Day.
With eight thought-provoking questions, the pack is designed to:
A Different Kind of Gift
“Valentine’s Day has the potential to reinvigorate your relationship if you approach it with honest, open communication,” says Aly. “When couples share their expectations, it becomes clear that you don’t have to buy extravagant gifts or spend money to give your partner what they really want, the feeling of being loved and known.”
Our Valentine’s Vision Question Pack is a gentle reminder that the magic of your connection isn’t confined to an idealized day—it lives in every shared smile, every mishap turned laugh, and every moment of understanding.
You and your partner can work through these eight questions at your own pace—whether on a cozy evening in or during a weekend getaway. The prompts create a safe space for authentic connection, enabling you both to express your hopes, avoid misaligned expectations, and ultimately enjoy every day as a true celebration of your love.
Embracing Every Day
So this Valentine’s Day, if your plans go awry, remember that it’s all part of the beautiful, imperfect journey you’re on together. With our Question Pack, you can confidently align your expectations, communicate openly, and celebrate (or not celebrate) this Valentines in your own way.
Follow @pairedapp on Instagram to get the tea on what really goes down, and what couples really want this Valentine’s Day.
